Decolonizing Love on Instagram: "In another day of triggering the monogs, I told my monogamous friend that monogamy as the social default has maybe two generations left, max. He said that’s wild. He’s a “data is god” guy, so he asked what stats I’m basing it on, which led to a heated debate. Non-monogamy isn’t fringe. A large U.S. study found about 1 in 5 people have engaged in consensual non-monogamy at some point (Haupert et al., Journal of Sex Research, 2017). In Canada, 4% of partnered peopl