Sometimes, when I offer sympathy by saying, “I’m sorry,” that person will respond by saying, “It’s not your fault” ...

Harriette Cole is a lifestylist and founder of DREAMLEAPERS, an initiative to help people access and activate their dreams.

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

DEAR ABBY: I made a terrible mistake moving 2,000 miles across the country to be closer to my grandchildren.

I made a terrible mistake moving 2,000 miles across the country to be closer to my grandchildren. In the past, I have always ...

I made a terrible mistake moving 2,000 miles across the country to be closer to my grandchildren. In the past, I have always ...

"It is also hard to do things with them because my daughter-in-law is always rushing them to do something else." ...

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

She missed out on a lot because she worked and was so far from the kids. Now that she's closer, she still feels shut out.

DEAR ABBY: I made a terrible mistake moving 2,000 miles across the country to be closer to my grandchildren.

DEAR ABBY: Sometimes, when I offer sympathy to someone about a difficult situation they are experiencing by saying, “I’m ...